Because I’m Worth It

One year someone said they pitied me for being alone on my birthday and not having anyone to buy me flowers or jewelry or whatever they thought a birthday gift should be. Let me set the record straight. Again. I’m never truly alone. I’ve had dozens of well wishes and phone calls. I was with…

THANKSGIVING BUZZ

I’ve wanted to do this for a long time. Whenever I’ve asked a hairdresser to do it, they’ve balked. Their definition of femininity didn’t allow it. Know that I LOVE IT.  If you don’t, that’s ok. I didn’t do it for you. It’s the most freeing thing I’ve done with my “look” since I cut…

THE YEAR OF FEARLESS

Tomorrow is no different than today as it relates to goal-setting and self-promise making. Still, each year, people chose this day to make huge (and often unobtainable) changes in their lives. From losing weight, saving money, finding love, and a host of other well-intended resolutions, people hope that the coming year will be “their” year…

THE PURSUIT OF HAPPINESS

I remember what it was like to be so greatly affected by my surroundings, circumstances, and other people’s inability to experience happiness. I have been reminded lately that I am in charge of how I feel, I am in charge of my happiness. Being responsible for oneself seems like an easy concept, but in a…

HAPPY

This song is my new theme song for life. Happiness is a choice and I’m choosing it wholeheartedly! If you can sit still or feel down or depressed while listening to this song, you need to go see someone about that! HAPPY – Performed and Written by the phenomenal Pharrell Williams It might seem crazy…